lil’ Gary’s Legacy was born from the loss of our 24 year old son Gary, in March 2002. In a moment of despair and hopelessness he chose to end his own life. A part of us died with him that day. We have chosen to allow our pain to motivate us to reach outside of ourselves, to find purpose and healing. God is strengthening us day by day with His love and through His grace.  Our hearts desire is to be an encouragement to you, He is faithful even in tragedy there is hope.

God never wastes a hurt; our hope is to help others by sharing our story, keeping Gary’s memory alive through Good Works in loving memory.

On February 29, 2012 our daughter Tiffany also went home to be with the Lord. She is at peace with God and reunited with her brother. Her story can be found on the Memorial Wall. She is also honored and remembered in this slideshow of her life.


Donations made to her memorial fund will be designated to her daughters Haley and Brooklynn for educational expenses.

Founded April 2002 by Gary and Kathryn Ross

♥ Heart Felt Thank You ♥

To our Daughter in Love, Trisha Ross for her support and dedication to the design and implementation of this website. Through you God sent us inspiration and belief that our story could be an instrument of hope and healing. You are a special blessing from the Lord in our lives.

To our brother, Jeff Ross for his love and support of our desire to share our story. Your expertise in web mastery and hours of hard work constructing this site have meant more to us than we can even express in words. May God richly bless you for all you have given.

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Christian Resource Center
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